For the love of all that is good and pure, take some time to make a profile and include all the important information, especially what you’re into and even what you aren’t into trying. You can add in other mainstream things about yourself, too, but since it’s a kink site, you should make sure those points are definitely included. It really just saves everyone from awkward situations and wasted time.
One of the big perks of Collarspace is that they allow kinky photos and videos. I saw some things that were a huge turn-on, and well, some things that weren’t for me. At all.
But, hey, they may be something you’re into, so don’t be afraid to watch the videos that other members post. And, you never know, they may be a match for you.
Once you’ve poked around on Collarspace a bit, you’re going to want to search for the match or matches for you. I would recommend you be very honest with what you’re looking for in your search because the people of Collarspace are serious with their kinks. If anything makes you uncomfortable, don’t agree to it or even search for it.
Now, one problem I had with this site is that if a member isn’t active, they’re still listed as a current member. That means you have to watch how long its been since they’ve logged in or you’re going to be sending messages to people that won’t respond.
If you’re considering joining Collarspace, here is a breakdown of what I think are the good and the bad points:
- Completely free
- Fetish/Kink videos
- Read and write for their blogs
- Pretty much no holds barred (except illegal activities)
- Incomplete profiles
- Abandoned profiles
- Mass marketing blows up your inbox
- Lots of ads
- Free dating sites mean no real policing and annoying members
Are you someone who is experienced in kink? Or, are you the type of person just dipping your toes into the kink waters?
Whoever you are in the kink community, I think you’ll enjoy using Collarspace. Yes, it looks dated. Yes, there are incomplete and abandoned profiles. And, yes there are going to be a lot of messages in your inbox for advertising.
However, if you can overlook the few warts that Collar Space has, I think you’ll enjoy what the site has to offer to the kink community.
Well, there are certainly other things that you could do such as joining fling and reaching out to all the BDSM folks on the site. That’s what I’d do for starters. #BOOM
Frankie Moretti is an Italian investment banker who’s a go-getter with an eye for staying ahead of trends. He’s a sucker for hot women, data, fine wine and likes to take things to the extreme in all aspects of life. His motto is, “Life is like the Stock Market indices, make the right moves and you’ll see more peaks!”
why theydoing this discrimination to people? i have very simple profile and was thinkng that i m member of collarspace but for 6 motnhs or may be longer they never warn me or approved my profile.. all of my friends keep asking why my profile is invisible at collarspace. i m trying to reach and ask whats wrong with collarspace but they never care or response me.. god damn collarspace!! and stupid discrimination .
The answer is: They won’t. Especially women. Women are much smarter than us men and they want to know about someone before they waste their time contacting them, and they often won’t just contact someone who can’t be bothered to talk about themselves even a little bit.